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sunnyjenkins
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Posted on 12/15/2009

I have wanted to be with another woman since high school. I finally had my first experience last year. I am 40ish and she was 25. Wow, how fortunate I was to have her. My open-minded boyfriend knew that I wanted to have a woman orally please me, even though he pleases me orally all the time. He made it happen for my birthday. My girl, say Gwen, canceled our first date, she was apprenhensive about meeting a male and female that she did not know. I understood this. Months later, she agreed, no pressure from us. But I must admit I was very disappointed when she canceled. After so many years of wondering, dreaming, feeling a woman's lips on me in my dreams...only to have it not come to fruition...yes, disappointed puts it mildly. Fortunately, our big day arrived, lots went wrong, but I was determined to enjoy what I had so long waited for. At the hotel, martinis were waiting for her. I had already showered, so we talked for a while, she spoke Spanish to me, which was also a turn on. My Spanish is poor, but it also turned her on that I tried. She showered, came out very sexy, we talked more while my boyfriend showered. I was waiting for him to join us, but she had other ideas. I was on the bed, she came to me and started stroking my legs, face, hair and then kissed me. I had never kissed a woman, her lips were soft. My boyfriend came out the shower to find us in the embrace. He immediately was aroused, he joined us. She turned me over and kissed her way down..., it was pleasurable, my boyfriend entered her doggie style. Both aroused we came at the same time. Music!



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Jagg18
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Posted on 08/01/2010

Dear Biexec,

Ive been married twice, My first wife knew from the start my second wife was not told until after 7 yrs into the marriage. 3 more yrs later we were divorced. I loved her so much, she couldnt accept me as a bi man. Its a lonely world out there and My decision from now on would be to be UP FRONT and not lie. Thats me, trust is a big thing for me now. Good luck matey.


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Posted on 02/19/2010

I am a straight woman that had a 15 year relationship with a bi guy and loved everything about him and our sex life was great.. he had threesomes and things were good.. we are not together now because he fell in love with another.. I am now dating men that are bi-curious and I support them 100% in finding themselves and I am in my 50's and don't care what people say.. relationships are about trust , honesty and loving one self. I wouldn't want my guy to hide his sexual preferance. I am unusual in my thinking but I grew up in the 60'-70's and my mom was a free spirit so I guess I have her to thank.



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Shellybutler
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Posted on 02/18/2010

where do you live



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RavenWinter
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Posted on 01/11/2010


That is wonderful that you finally got the experience you have been waiting for. I, myself, have been waiting for a girl.


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Posted on 01/11/2010


I think people have to accept people for the way that they are. If your woman can not accept you for who you are then you deserve to find one who will. You are who you are for a reason, so don't be ashamad of yourself. Be proud of yourself man and know that this world may be full of cruel unaccepting people, but they are not the ones who matter. The ones who are accepting of you are the ones that you should focus your attention on. I hope you find you a good accepting woman and it is wonderful that you want to be honest with her about who you really are.



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Posted on 12/30/2009

Biexecutive:

I understand what you're saying...I've thought the same myself many times. In terms of keeping your bisexuality hidden from the world however, I don't think this is realistic. I think a lot of people can detect bisexual (men) just as they can detect men who are gay. When I first began to realize that I am bisexual I tried to act as if I wasn't, and this just made my interactions awkward. I found the best thing was just to be myself and say to hell with what other people think. I've found that people respect and like being around me more for this.

In terms of finding a woman who will be compatible with your lifestyle...again, I don't think this is something that we have any control over. Even if you find someone who's will marry you, what if there are other areas of the relationship that don't work...would you still marry her just to be with a woman?

These are not easy things to come to terms with. I battle them myself. The best advice I can give is to be open and honest with your sexuality, and trust that it will lead you to the one you are meant to be with.



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Posted on 12/21/2009

Great that you are so positive about your sexuality.
Just a fun loving person who wants to be with a bi sexual male for a long term relationship. I wont have to hide anymore. I am intrested in that woman who has no problem in the world with her man having another man. I will never put it in your face.
I am a bisexual guy who is ready to settle down in a monogamous long term
relationship with one woman, hopefully it works out as a life-long
partnership.


Do you realise that a bisexual woman has no trouble finding a husband to
raise a family with, whereas a bisexual guy who wants to be honest with
his woman about his bisexuality would stand very little chance of her
trusting him enough to marry him.


Hence most bisexual men end up lying to their women and doing stuff
behind her back.


Well I want to be honest with my woman (not the whole world, just my
woman) about my bisexuality, so I'm trying to find a woman who doesn't
mind about it up front. Also I thought maybe she would have to be
bisexual herself to truly understand. This would then give us both the
task of keeping the knowledge of each other's bisexuality safe from the
scrutiny of the rest of the world, while we continue to be happy
together.


What do you think of this? Is this a practical idea in today's society?
And how much chance is there of finding such a woman? Would it be fair to
say that many bisexual women accept the society's stigmatization of
gay/bisexual men and hence wouldn't want to marry them/us anyway?  #5">

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